Travel Light or Wait Forever For Your Stuff

I boarded the plane in Paris yesterday, unloaded my things for the flight, it takes 12 hours to get to Saigon, and at the the last minute an older man, older than me that is arrived and took the window seat. We exchanged pleasantries, the plane took off and we started talking. I asked if this was his first visit to Vietnam. No he replied I first arrived in early 1951 as a nineteen year paratrooper in the French Marine Commando Brigade. I did the mental calculation and of course continued with the conversation.

He told me they used to jump from Dakota aeroplanes but it took time to get the 12 man “stick” out the side door of a Dakota so he preferred a German plane WWII plane I think he said a Dornier where they could jump more quickly from the rear. He said there were quite a few Germans, excellent soldiers, some from the Russian front, some former SS, serving in the French Foreign Legion. His “stick” would land bury the parachutes and patrol looking for the enemy and set up ambushes. Late in 1952 it was their turn in the barrel and his group was ambushed and he was shot in the leg. He was evacuated, first by friends carrying him and then by vehicle to Danang, where I lived from 1966 for 5 years when the US was trying the same thing.

After that he couldn’t jump, he said parachutes were more basic then, but was still a commando so they would go on a mission, inserted to set up landing zones for big groups to jump in or on other special operations. He was finally transferred back to France with his unit in 1956.

He had remained in the navy long enough to get a pension but said he did not like it much, there was no real esprit or camaraderie compared to life with the commando brigade. He kept in touch with surviving old comrades talking to and exchanging emails a couple of times a year. He had been elected twice to some local political office but believed politicians, nearly all of them, were duplicitous, untrustworthy and interested only in themselves. He prefers the people he had previously fought against in Vietnam and met subsequently on his travels.

He had decided to visit Vietnam 30 years later, first in 1986 when he figured enough time had passed since the Americans had departed and things should have stabilized. He visited nearly every year since. I asked if at 87 he was not worried about health problems on his travels ? He told me that a couple of years ago he had a heart attack in Phan Thiet, but the local Vietnamese doctor was good, injected him with something to ease the situation and externally massaged his heart until he stabilised. He was flown back to France and now has a pacemaker. He showed me the little health card he needs to get through airport security.

He had suffered a couple of strokes but that was in France so no crisis. He was pretty phlegmatic or even fatalistic about death and dying, maybe due to his earlier youthful career of jumping from aeroplanes, looking for armed people defending their country to attack. Never a winning idea unless you are in the business of war. But he mentioned how touched he was at the reaction of his 5 daughters, he had been married I think three times, now to a Vietnamese lady he met in Paris, when they thought he was dying. He showed me two photos of him with the two daughters with his Vietnamese wife. One did her doctorate in the university of Saigon and translates books between French and Vietnamese, the other is working in Japan.

It became a little difficult to hear him clearly after lunch, oddly enough after he put his hearing aids back in place. But in periods when we were both awake I continued talking to him, I found him fascinating.

I asked where he was staying in Saigon, thinking maybe we could meet and he told me he never made reservations. He would take the number 8 bus from the airport to the bus depot in town and then ask around until he found the next bus to Cu Chi where he has some friends from previous visits who owned a small hotel. How long was he staying in Cu Chi ?, no idea but when he was bored he would take another bus or taxi to the next place. How about his suitcase ? he didn’t have one, only the small, very small carry on bag in the overhead, I saw it, and a small shoulder bag with his passport and papers. Did he get his spending money from ATMs ? no he was seldom in a big city, he had 4K in a money belt and would keep on travelling until he had a reason to return to France.  He had bought his airline ticket at his local LeClerc supermarket with a one month return date but for €60 he could change the date once he had decided. I told him the last time I changed my return date from Vietnam they charged me €300, he showed me his receipt including the €60 option. So much for the Internet.

I asked him what he loved about Vietnam ? he told me the people, the way families stay together, the climate, the food, how safe it was, yes there was crime but not much, and for him it was very inexpensive, he would buy a pair of shorts and trousers and a pair of sandals at his first stop and leave them behind when he left. How long did he plan to continue visiting ? currently he thought until he was 90 but he would see after that.

We landed, I handed him his bag from the overhead, we deplaned and walked, slowly to the immigration counters. He went first. The immigration officer spent a while flipping back and forth looking at all his many visa entries for Vietnam, he had also made it to Cambodia, not really too far by bus he said. Finally stamped it, handed it back and he strolled away, looked back and waved, and turned away heading for the next number 8 bus.

I went downstairs and waited forever and impatiently with the other 300 plus people for our suitcases and our “stuff” while Loisel was flying down the road again to Cu Chi and …….

Shopping for TET this morning.

A small popular shop specializing in things from North Vietnam. The customer pulls up on a motor bike, shops and the owner’s son boxes it up and tapes it down, about a metre high on the back of the bike and the customer wobbles off among hundreds of other motor bikes

YOLO

Dear Jean,

I moved to this corner of France about 16 years ago with two French friends from the World Bank, Pierre Mersier and Claude Carlier. Pierre died in December and last Thursday afternoon I learned that Claude, after many years of struggling with Parkinson’s disease had died in his sleep during the previous night. So I went to his home in the next village about 5 PM

Claude’s wife Violette is 84 years old, very deaf and very blind. The housekeeper had come to the house at 9 AM and as usual found them both in bed, one sleeping and the other not. She called their doctor, their daughter in Brussels and the funeral home. As I sat on the couch with Violette she would sometimes ask me where is Claude. When the two guys from the funeral home showed up about 6:15 I kept her busy in the kitchen while they removed Claude’s body. The housekeeper prepared a light supper for us and left. Violette and I sat on opposite sides of the table, she ate and I tapped my fork on the plate, I had no appetite and anyway she cannot see. We had some very bizarre exchanges, me shouting replies across the table to her questions about where was Claude. 

At some point she would start confusing me with Claude insisting that I eat everything on my plate. Then according to her habits at around 7:30 she closed all the shutters, locked the doors, turned out all the lights but one and announced it was time to go to bed. I persuaded her not to turn on the alarm as I would need to go to the bathroom. I turned on some lights and settled in on the couch to read and stay with her until her daughter arrived in the morning. 

They keep the house extremely hot 28C according to a thermometer on the wall, and I was reluctant to fiddle with the thermostat so I spent the night in my underwear drinking a glass of very old wine from bottle I found in the kitchen. I looked everywhere but could not find his whiskey. Somewhere in the early hours I remembered that their daughter mentioned to me she had a camera installed in the living room so she could see on her smart phone how her parents were doing, so I stopped scratching where it itched. Their daughter arrived around 0830 the next morning.

Today I went to the funeral home to sit with Claude for 5 minutes in the dimly lit small room where he was laid out, and to reflect on his very interesting life. He was born in Vietnam in 1934 during the French colonial era. When he grew up he joined the French merchant marine, jumped ship in Tahiti, found a job there in a phosphate mine and met and married Violette. A few years later when the mine was exhausted his parents, still living in Saigon bought them the tickets and they travelled to Vietnam with their two young sons on a flying boat, flying only during the day, landing on the water as night approached and taking a boat to their hotel. He found work on a rubber plantation outside Saigon and eventually ended up the plantation director. He told me it was complicated as he had to deal with US army during the day and the Viet Cong communists during the night.

I abruptly stopped my daydreaming when much to my surprise the noisy refrigeration unit built into the underside of his bed started up and scared the sh.t out of me.

His funeral service was at 10:30 on Tuesday in a small Catholic church in another nearby village. 


You Only Live Once, But if You Do it Right It Is Enough.

Best wishes from the last man standing.

John

Family

In 1976 after what the Vietnamese refer to as the American War I sponsored my then wife’s 4 sisters 2 brothers and her mother to leave Saigon for Vancouver. The Canadian immigration authorities refused my request.
 
One brother, seated third from the left on the couch had earlier escaped by boat with a sister not in the photo and with good luck escaped the Thai pirates waiting to rob, rape and frequently kill the boat people. They along with many other boats washed up on the coast of Malaysia. Many did not succeed and while it is impossible to accurately calculate the UN estimates somewhere between 200,00 and 400,000 of 2 million boat people drowned or were murdered.
 
I was very angry that the Canadian immigration procedures allowed me to sponsor these two from Malaysia but did not allow me sponsor the rest directly from Vietnam.
 
I launched a campaign on CBC radio, local newspapers,  involved local politicians, repeatedly phoned Ottawa and the Canadian Embassy in Bangkok (I worked at the phone company so I considered the calls part of my benefits) pointing out the utter illogic that if you risked your life escaping from Vietnam in a leaky boat, were not drowned or  killed by pirates you could as a refugee then be sponsored to come to Canada. After a few months the Canadian authorities  changed the law and mine were the first family to be allowed to leave directly for Canada from Vietnam. 
 
I am visiting Vancouver and in the photos are two of the brothers, one sister, their spouses and children. They are all hardworking beautiful people and Canada came out way ahead on the arrangement. The rest of the  sisters and their families live variously in San Diego, Calgary and Toronto. 
 
The irony, and I appreciate irony is many years ago their sister and my ex-wife moved back to and lives in Saigon.
 
Go figure, nostalgia isn’t what it used to be.
 
John

 

   

Life in Saigon, Vietnam

Dear Tutu
I have been walking the streets of Saigon for over a week now, not just downtown but in Phu Nhuan, and thought I might better understand how I view it by attempting to describe it a little to you.
There is construction everywhere from small shops and hotels to many very tall buildings. At 0700 from the back of Chau my godaughter’s Vespa the streets are already crowded with motor bikes, people are at work on the sidewalk, little restaurants are busy, Vietnam has started another work day and in the window of a shop in Phu Nhuan I saw a Rolls Royce (RR) for sale. In town I saw a Bentley, the car for those who are too rich for a mere RR, parked outside the old French colonial era Brodard’s Cafe while the owner was inside buying a cake.
I know the recent Chinese experience contradicts my point but for how long can expansion at this rate and with this breadth continue. If we have learned that no economy rises forever when and with what consequences will things slow down here. Or will the decline start first in China, with their cooling economy and rising inflation, and here they will be dragged behind.
Many people I talk with are sending their children to Australia and Singapore for their undergraduate degrees. What impact will those that return make to the local condition.
All this is overlaid with the commercial flurry leading up to Tet, the lunar new year. Not far from Chau’s mother Yen’s home specialised shops are selling gift baskets with imported whiskey, cognac, chocolates, biscuits etc etc. They are also selling 3 litre bottles of Courvoiser, Jack Daniels and 21 year old Chivas.
On the other hand Chau pays a young uneducated Vietnamese / Cambodian girl to clean their house 3 times a week to help her out as she provides the sole support for her family.
Trying to think about this is confused by my experiences in the years I lived here, 1966 to 1975 and my love for Vietnam and admiration for the people I meet every day. What I think changes nothing for these people but it is interesting to try to understand one’s own life. So I guess I am back to the mirror of me.
I am happy to report I have exchanged emails with Claude Carlier.
My best wishes from Saigon where it is 33 degrees and a little humid.
John
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