A Gifted Son

My friend Rita and her husband Henry’s son Frank is a talented young man and a gifted painter and is now working in Germany as an architect.

One day when discussing just how “wonderful” our children are Rita invited me to her home to look at a few of Frank’s paintings, some from the portfolio he had to submit when applying to Cornell university.

In the style of Emily Carr.

The painting that most caught my attention was the one of his paternal grandmother he painted at 16 years of age working from a 2.5 X 2.5 black and white photo.

The painting is so realistic that on his next trip to China his father Henry carefully rolled the portrait and in China had eight hand painted copies made and gave one to each of his brothers. These paintings now hang in each of their homes in Guang Dong city to honor their grandmother.

While we were looking at the paintings I noticed some beautiful wooden boards and when I inquired Rita told me they were boards for playing Go. She casually mentioned she is a champion player representing Canada in international amateur contests, one in Japan in 2018.

The beautiful bowls and the semi-precious playing stones were a wedding gift from her parents

To complete this story I have to mention that as a child Frank followed his mother around the kitchen, making notes and learning to cook.

When he first took up his position in Germany in 2018 his employer won a major contract to renovate and upgrade one of the then luxury hotels in Beijing and Frank traveled there frequently to work on the project. Being a creative young man he took the opportunity to make friends with the hotels head chef and added greatly to his own international culinary repertoire.

Last year, 2023 for the birthday of a friend, a young lady who is Korean-German, I love that detail, as a gift designed the menu and prepared her a meal served by himself, the master chef.

Lucky lady

An Uber Driver

I flew from Vancouver to Washington DC on Sunday the 17th of December and having landed in a tropical downpour, exited into a totally chaotic three lane swarm of cars at the Arrivals level was picked up by my daughter. The traffic police were in their cars keeping their powder dry.

Yesterday, Monday I booked an Uber to my local doctor’s office for a blood draw and on the way the driver Saol was kind enough to share the following story with me.

At 18 years of age living in Addis Ababa, and despite his father’s objections, his father taught in a local university, Saol joined the Ethiopian Air Force. After basic training he was sent to the Ukraine where he was trained as a helicopter pilot, returned to Ethiopia and after 16 years of service and having reached the rank of major he resigned from the Air Force because the salary was pitifully low, he was having to borrow money to feed his family. Also he told me the helicopters were very old and vibrated a lot and after all those years of flying them even when he was home his body continued to shake at the same frequency as the helicopter.

When he left the Ukraine he had purchased and brought home a Lada car but found because of its poor, he says undeserved reputation no one would buy it so he had placed it in storage.

He now decided to become a taxi driver, put the Lada in working order and had it painted in the required color for taxis in Addis Ababa. When driving it home a foreigner in front of a hotel flagged him down and asked to be driven to a government office on the opposite side of town and with a strong smell of paint in the car, still bearing the original plates and without a taxi license he had his first customer. He was asked to return and drive the customer back to the hotel and on arrival was give the equivalent of approaching US$200, he said the equivalent of a months salary in the Air Force. He protested this was way too much but his protests were waved off and he realized a taxi was as he said an instant cash crop.

At that point he decided life favored those that took risks and stayed alert to opportunity. Some months later he had been driving 5 Saudi businessmen around town in his taxi for a few days when they told him they were tired of hotel living and asked him to find them a house where they could relax and cook their own food etc. he told them let me check.

He returned home and asked his wife if she was OK with moving in with his parents, had the house cleaned and painted, rented it to the Saudis and went into the real estate business buying, fixing and reselling houses. Life was definitely favoring the bold. He next purchased a heavy truck and added that to his growing business empire. He told me that no matter what challenges arose he always remembered his true north, that with fate and god watching you have to take chances to succeed.

But then he told me the old Italian time bomb exploded, that the colonists always leave a time bomb behind, and the war with Eritrea broke out. Evidently when the Italians invaded Ethiopia centuries ago they first conquered Eritrea and integrated it with Ethiopia, which Eritrea never accepted.

Because of his former military service and his businesses he was at risk so he fled and eventually arrived with his family in the US as a refugee and having worked at different jobs he now at 66 years of age is an Uber driver. Without he mentioned medical insurance.

I thanked him for opening my eyes about colonist time bombs in N. Africa and told him we had an English time bomb in Ireland that was still exploding after 500 years, I thanked him for the conversation, said goodbye and wished him well. He made me reflect on just how many post colonialist time bombs there are continuously exploding in various parts of the world.

But I was at Dr Cullen’s office and it was time to bare my left forearm and keep the phlebotomist relaxed while she tried to hit my aging and always rolling away veins. If the phlebotomist becomes tense after a few misses they switch to the other arm and have once even proposed trying a vein in the back of my hand, so it is a good idea to keep them distracted, relaxed and successful on their first effort.

Stay well.

John

Be kind; everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.

RMS Titanic

Hi Dee,

Me again.

During my recent 20 day train trip in May from Vancouver on the west coast to Halifax on the east coast of Canada with two day stops in various cities along the way I saw a few interesting things.

The most striking was the Titanic passengers graveyard in Halifax, visited by tourists from around the world.

When the Titanic sank the White Star line hired boats from Halifax to sail, two days to the area to help with the recovery of the bodies.

The bodies identified from wealthy families, ergo the first class passengers, were returned to England or forwarded to New York.

The rest were interred in Halifax, those identified have a name on their tombstone and the those not, a number.

The most bizarre are the tourists who according to our tour guide confuse the movie Titanic with the reality of the sinking of the RMS Titanic and place bouquets of flowers, movie ticket stubs and photos of themselves, periodically cleared away, at the tombstone of J. Dawson. Apparently the name used for the male hero in the movie.

In truth he was a coal trimmer on the ship, his body identified by the number of his National Sailors and Fireman’s Union card he had thoughtfully placed in his pocket.

He was an Irishman from Dublin tying to get to America.

He and his below decks colleagues were permitted topside after the lifeboats were launched.His body was barefoot when found, having like other below decks crew removed their work boots to make it possible to swim – briefly.

Observed listing in the Halifax public park, and much appreciated by yours truly.

Whatever floats your boat.

A New Immigrant

Hello Dee,

First I hope you are well and in good spirits and I threaten to call you soon.

A number of months ago Frédérique my friend and neighbor in Saint Denis, he had built  house one field over, emailed and told me his ostéopathe Mme B. was planning to immigrate to Vancouver and would I please be of assistance to her. 

I exchanged emails with Mme B. over the months responding to her questions and giving her advice e.g. ensure he professional qualifications were recognized by our local medical authorities etc. I also advised her that living in Castelnaudary, the home of the French Foreign Legion 4e Regiment there is probably a steady demand for osteopaths but the profession is not well known hereabouts.

4th Foreign Regiment

L. arrived three weeks ago, located her Airbnb downtown and sent me a note saying all was well and she was off looking for employment.

A week later I emailed her saying I was arranging a monthly lunch with some friends from our local community centre, all of us elderly and she was welcome to join us. That later I would walk her around Kerrisdale letting her see life in my suburb as opposed to her AirBnB in downtown Vancouver. She replied she would be happy to join us.

We met as arranged at a bus stop on the corner of 41st Avenue and East Boulevard in Kerrisdale and having been told to look for an old man with a cane she found me and we walked to the Golden Ocean Restaurant where she was to try two new things for the first time, brunch and dim sum.

Her English was fair, she made the effort to address and converse with her new a acquaintances, counter clockwise, Khanh from Vietnam, Wei from South Africa, Helen and John from England, Grace from Hong Kong and Pauline from Malaysia. The ladies were much taken with her and she received immediate chop stick instruction. 

Having only communicated with her by email I was astonished to learn she is 25 years old, has already found employment 3 days a week in a clinic adjacent to the Vancouver General Hospital, is here to get work experience, become fluent in English and plans to go to medical school in Montreal.

While I went home for my postprandial nap L. got on the R4 Express bus to explore the University of British Columbia.

The world will be OK.

John

PS I am leaving next Saturday for a one week train tour of northern BC.

https://milezerotours.com/skeena-adventure